Help Clubbing

[Zirus]

I have read a few posts and some of you guys seem like you can help me.

I have always wanted to go in to a club and feel like everyone was looking at me, I want to feel like "the guy".
my present scenario -I walk in with my best friends (3 guys) and we do a lap around then my friends usually find girls and I end up getting hammered alone.
Its not about getting the girls but more about feeling like "the man", I really want that.

[Maverick153]

Objective : Be "The Man".
Partial Secondary Objective : Have a lot of Girls.

Ok, Being that guy is quite a simple task, all you have to do is create the lifestyle.

First step will be to go clubbing solo (girls will infer either one of two things (when you roll with three dudes) you are either not self confident or you are gay!), If you feel the need to go clubbing with companions make sure they are girls (8's or higher). Start working on yourself (work out {buy some weight lifting gear - 1 hour a day, everyday!}, create the lifestyle, start to love yourself). Believe you are interesting and lovable, believe that being around you is every girls/guys dream and start acting like it!
Where thought goes energy flows, so focus on being "the guy".

Crucial Step : Wear a suit (Look powerful, be powerful!).

Star reading up :

1. Dark Triad of Personalities.

The Dark triad (or the dark triad of personalities) is a group of personality traits which people would generally define as undesirable. It is called a “dark triad” because it consists of three main personality deficiencies: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad

2. Narcissism

3. Machiavellianism

Read up on all of it and start analyzing personality types of people you would like to be like and then start incorporating some of the dark triad personality types in to your behavior (tip: leave out psychopathy).

| Be the one who ends all conversations.
| Be the one who controls all encounters.
| Be the spectacle, re focus everybody's attention on to you (throw some money around {literally & figuratively}).
| Always leave them wanting more.
| Make guys and girls work for your attention.
| Don't take a sip of alcohol when you are out clubbing!
| If a conversation goes badly use stock lines such as : Go and google me (my name), educate yourself and then maybe I will let you talk to me, it was certainly your pleasure!
| Never give a straight answer.
| Learn some magic and have some good jokes.
| Never compliment targets (girls).
| Right Posture.
| Don't talk like a wimp.



If you need anything else don't hesitate to ask.
Regards,
Mav.

[Shalom]

The Dark Triad?
Mav, are you serious?

[Zirus]

Thank you very very much, I'll try it but wouldn't this make me look like an a**hole?

[RightfullyYours]

I have read a few posts and some of you guys seem like you can help me.

I have always wanted to go in to a club and feel like everyone was looking at me, I want to feel like "the guy".
my present scenario -I walk in with my best friends (3 guys) and we do a lap around then my friends usually find girls and I end up getting hammered alone.
Its not about getting the girls but more about feeling like "the man", I really want that.

I think that just being yourself would count as "being the man" in my book, but if you still want more, Mav did offer some great advice :)

[Shalom]

Being yourself is the best policy.
Mav, there is a reason why it is called the "dark" triad.

[Maverick153]

Sadly society has pushed public perception and human mindset to the point were being an ass is considered attractive (sadly).

@ Shalom.
Read up on the "dark" triad and you'll know what I mean.

@ Ry.
Good advice. That is why I always tell people never to act like the "guy" but to become "the guy" instead. Transform yourself, your lifestyle and your mind to the point where everything you want comes to you.

Regards,
Mav.

[Marina]

Be comfortable and confidant.
Maverick, you are a psycho!

[Zirus]

Sadly society has pushed public perception and human mindset to the point were being an ass is considered attractive (sadly).


Maverick - Point taken, I am going to get my suits dry cleaned. Thank you very much.

1 more thing, should I really throw money?

[Maverick153]

Yes, I meant what I said. You don't have to throw too much, carry around a couple of tens and one more thing mind the timing!

The suit immediately separates you from the losers, posers and abusers.

Make sure you come back and write a play by play of how it goes.

Regards,
Mav.

[Zirus]

Maverick- Thanks a lot. I am going out on the weekend and I will let you know.
Thanks again guys and girl.

[Zirus]

I went on Friday and Saturday. I did most of what you told me to, what I understood at least. Felt good people were looking at me I suppose that is good. A voice in my head kept telling me I was lying. I am reading up on the psychology stuff it is interesting.

[Maverick153]

Great. Keep at it and you will be fine.
Never think of it as a lie!

Regards,
Mav.