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Lover
08-11-2009, 01:39 AM
To all the dudes -
What is the longest you have had to wait before hitting it?
3 days - Norwegian cousins, was tricky as I hadn't slept with them individually.

Zirus
08-14-2009, 08:35 AM
4 years - my first gf from high school

Ghost
08-14-2009, 10:16 AM
7 weeks , my last girlfriend / ex fiance so I would say whatever you do , don't wait 7 weeks!!!!!

Zirus
08-16-2009, 03:22 AM
7 weeks , my last girlfriend / ex fiance so I would say whatever you do , don't wait 7 weeks!!!!!

Lolz dude :D

Sin Switch
08-16-2009, 11:03 PM
7 weeks , my last girlfriend / ex fiance so i would say whatever you do , don't wait 7 weeks!!!!!
rofl :) !!!

Mandy
10-13-2009, 07:37 AM
To all the dudes -
What is the longest you have had to wait before hitting it?3 days - Norwegian cousins, was tricky as I hadn't slept with them individually.


hm... what is the quickest? i am just curious.

have you ever just met and "hit it" (forgive my use of the slang, but it seemed a "fun" way to put it!) with a young lady without even introduction or ado?

Angelus
10-13-2009, 07:50 AM
hm... what is the quickest? i am just curious.

have you ever just met and "hit it" (forgive my use of the slang, but it seemed a "fun" way to put it!) with a young lady without even introduction or ado?

can't speak for him but I think the instant lay is what usually happens

Mandy
10-13-2009, 12:59 PM
can't speak for him but I think the instant lay is what usually happens

really? you mean the same night you meet? or you say hello and escort her out?

have you ever just walked up and said... lay down, i think i love you? just paraphrasing... i know there is no love... but you get the gist!

i am biased, but i think you are lovely! a girl would be honored to attract your attention!

M~

Angelus
10-13-2009, 01:42 PM
really? you mean the same night you meet? or you say hello and escort her out?

have you ever just walked up and said... lay down, i think i love you? just paraphrasing... i know there is no love... but you get the gist!

i am biased, but i think you are lovely! a girl would be honored to attract your attention!

M~

thank you Mandy, this is a breakdown.

random 10 and me

me: you look so weird its almost cute (throw in something about an aesthetic flaw or say something about her lack of intelligence).

r10: (she is interested because of a simple psychological trigger - my initial lack of interest) who are you? (intrigued)

me: thats a very deep question. you have to work for the answer. lets try something else; you have a good energy about you (its in the eyes, make sure you give her the look), is there something more to you than your looks? (lol!) what makes you special?

r10: she starts to blabber on about things that make her special, like an inner light (LOL).

me: that is interesting. (how good do you feel routine). push her psych states a bit and then make sure you sub communicate the LIE that you are the man she is looking for and the TRUTH that you don't play by conventional laws or rules.

r10: bla bla bla.

me: thats not interesting. you seem to be a very perceptive person (then i pull a random read technique so that she tells me how incredibly awesome and ballsy I am).

me: fluff, fluff not about her intelligence but about her "esp" skills (lol).

r10: lots of questions she is never going to get the answer to (never).

me: some variant of "you gotta work for it"

by this time she is turned on and interested. the rest is just getting her back to the hotel room (I very rarely take them back home for a lot of reasons).

exude confidence and then do what you are meant to do!

Playboy
10-13-2009, 03:22 PM
r10 lol, she is good!

Mandy
10-13-2009, 08:15 PM
so, just moments! i love it! you charm her pants off! (so to speak)

have you ever found an r10 (i like that ... r10) that like almost to the "close" and you just couldnt stand something about her... so you just walk off... what happens? she is under your spell already, does she just pine for you?

i ask from fascination. i hope it is alright, Angelus.

is it fun? do you ever get a reaction that sets the r10 apart from the rest? better than the rest?

Angelus
10-14-2009, 12:01 AM
so, just moments! i love it! you charm her pants off! (so to speak)

have you ever found an r10 (i like that ... r10) that like almost to the "close" and you just couldnt stand something about her... so you just walk off... what happens? she is under your spell already, does she just pine for you?

i ask from fascination. i hope it is alright, Angelus.

is it fun? do you ever get a reaction that sets the r10 apart from the rest? better than the rest?

walking off is very common and the courage to do it is a necessity Mandy. its very alright. it is fun, the reactions are usually all congruent to a the girls (persons) character and rarely do they surprise.

Mandy
10-14-2009, 01:07 AM
walking off is very common and the courage to do it is a necessity Mandy. its very alright. it is fun, the reactions are usually all congruent to a the girls (persons) character and rarely do they surprise.


i know, like all others i suppose, i want to think i am unique. but truth be told, i am sure i would react to the scenario as predictably as any. there is comfort in that... to think that we have survived all... enveloped the earth... and triumphed as a species due to such predictable behaviors as this. i am truly impressed! - M~

Lucas West
10-14-2009, 04:21 AM
i know, like all others i suppose, i want to think i am unique. but truth be told, i am sure i would react to the scenario as predictably as any. there is comfort in that... to think that we have survived all... enveloped the earth... and triumphed as a species due to such predictable behaviors as this. i am truly impressed! - M~

you are very special, Mandy

Angelus
10-14-2009, 04:44 AM
i know, like all others i suppose, i want to think i am unique. but truth be told, i am sure i would react to the scenario as predictably as any. there is comfort in that... to think that we have survived all... enveloped the earth... and triumphed as a species due to such predictable behaviors as this. i am truly impressed! - M~

Rarely doesn't mean never ;)

Sneakygamer
10-14-2009, 12:37 PM
5 days is the longest I have had to wait

Untouchable
10-14-2009, 12:38 PM
23 hours but I was having fun the whole time